You're so close...

You're so close...

to your desired result. And yet somehow, you manage to snatch defeat from the jaws of victory. You cannot figure your way through this block, this wall, and you're beating it until your fists bleed.

This vicious cycle's ever-growing sense of futility is eating your spirit, but you can't stop and do nothing!  You can't just quit. 

You want this so badly; you're willing to beat yourself, your life, and everything to get at it. You can see your goal, taste it, almost touch it.  And yet, the closer you get, the more it eludes you.  

You know this is not the right way, that you'll likely not succeed like this, but you don't know what else to do. There's something that's blocking you. You don't know what it is, but you've long ago accepted that something is a part of YOU.

This recognition makes it worse. You have a general idea of the problem but cannot find the solution or the help to exorcise it. You may have tried many forms of coaching, therapy, and white-knuckle willpower. Nothing has worked. You're almost, if not already, desperate.

You're stuck.

Most people spend their lives in various forms of stuck. They spin their wheels with the aura of busyness, or worse, they just give up. Proverbs justify the frustration below the façade of "happiness" as they slowly surrender to their fate.

And since most people embrace this "acceptance," there is some satisfaction that "you're not alone." The golden chalice is a myth. It must be. No one gets it. 

But what if...
That sneaking sense that there are people, as corny as this sounds, "living their dreams," is correct?

What if you could unlock that secret within you? Heal and release the subversive part of yourself that cannot get with your plan. What if you could get there? 

There are super successful and joyous people out there living fully. It's not entirely impossible.

What do they know? What are they doing?
What if you could know and do it too?
You can.

Each of us is born with a potential that is rich beyond limit. And yet, within the early years, our life experiences (which don't need to be traumatic or abusive), by the sheer mechanism of our dependence as children, cloud our abilities to see how to activate those potentials.

We internalize our early experiences and vulnerabilities as unconscious beliefs (most limiting) and self-sabotaging identities (coping strategies). And then, we learn to block out, squeeze down, and ignore these parts of ourselves as we struggle to succeed.

And yet, those beliefs and identities make themselves known usually when we are closest to our dreams. They thwart and destroy us.

What if you could uncover and heal these beliefs and identities you accidentally formed as a child and young adult?

What could you become?

There's only one way to find out.

There are areas of your life where you know you want, could be, or do more. So first, we identify those areas and goals.  

Next, we uncover the behaviors that stand between you and those goals. 

Then on deep work sessions, I use a proven program to identify limiting beliefs, counter-productive identities, and any past traumas behind the behaviors that need changing.   Here we'll work to heal and de-program your subconscious mind, enabling you to experience a more self-directed and conscious life.  

This process creates intrinsic motivation - this is not willpower strengthening. My clients leave these sessions able to do and be what they could not before. 

Areas i work on:

• Shifting Identity
  
• Resolving Internal Conflicts
• Erasing Limiting Beliefs
• Neuroscience of Flow States
  
• and Future Self Design

Most clients find transformative behavioral gains in 3-5 sessions.  High performance individuals who are looking to increase performance will find huge gains in 5-10 sessions and then follow-up periodic support.